We were on our way to the apostle islands in Wisconsin when our big dog Ryder took a turn for the worse. We decided to turn back to get him home. we were almost to our stop for the night in Dundee, Michigan. Ben was driving, I was talking on the phone and the dogs were sleeping.

Suddenly there was an explosion, loud as a cannon. The passenger side tire blew out, making the floorboards rise beneath my seat. Ben hauled on the wheel but there was no stopping the coach. The force of the blast moved the coach off the road and we plunged 150 feet down an embankment into a wooded ravine. We crashed through the brush and suddenly the trunk of a huge tree appeared in front of me. There was a tremendous crash, lots of screaming and dogs barking. and then it was quiet until Ben started shouting for me. I was pinned in my seat, buried in debris. I knew it was bad. The EMS came. It took them almost an hour to extract me from the wreck. I am so grateful for the men that calmed me and their medicines released my pain. A nice man took our dogs to his home. I was taken to the Whalen medical center in Flint, Michigan, a level 1 trauma center. I was whisked off to surgery. Ben, meanwhile, was left to deal with all the forms, questions and the wreckage.
The damage is difficult to comprehend. Ryder, the original Red Dog on Wheels had to be put down. Ryder has been with us on every RV trip. He was already in frail health and the trauma only made him worse. Chase’s front paw was lacerated but otherwise unhurt. I have a compound fracture of my left leg. My ankle was snapped off (the docs say partially amputated), and my foot is crushed. Miraculously I have no other injuries. That’s crazy when you see where I was among the wreckage. The EMS guys said I was alive because my seatbelt saved me. Our beloved RV , the “Our401K” that has taken us on many journeys is not salvageable, and that will likely be the outcome for our tow car.
The biggest blessing of all is that Ben was uninjured. Had both of us been hurt, I don’t know how we could have managed our affairs. He has been taking care of me, the dogs, insurance stuff, getting our belongings from the RV and taking care of our friend CJ. I’ve been worried about him.
All of a sudden my plans have been altered in ways I can’t imagine. It’s going to be a long recovery process for me. I’ve had two surgeries so far and will have a third tomorrow. I’m still grappling with the enormity of how much change this will cause for me and Ben. I will keep posting on my blog, but this year’s travel stories will be about a different kind of journey.
Love to you all, friends.
Ben, Pam and Chase the Red Poodle






So incredibly glad to still have you in my life. Grateful that Ben was unhurt. I know this is so difficult for both of you. You amaze me once again.
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It’s pretty amazing to think that we survived that indeed. Thanks for your love sister, and for the love of that wonderful man that you married.
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I echo what Jean said – I cannot imagine life without you. We are incredibly grateful that you, Ben, and Chase are still here – and devastated with you on the loss of Ryder. So much love being sent your way!!
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I am so sorry this has happened to you all. A shame about Ryder. Glad Chase is ok. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. From the photos it is lucky you are both alive!
Mimi
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Pam and Ben,
my gosh and am grateful that you both are alive after this happened. My condolence to you both with Ryder. Our thoughts and prayer for you and processing recovery on your journey..
Let me know when you get home so would love to visit you. I just retired from OSD last July 31. Take care xoxo
Bob Donaldson-Pirc
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😪❤️😪❤️😪❤️😪❤️ omgosh you guys!!! I am so sorry!!!!!!!! Omg!! That’s just awful!!! Will fill Harold in tomorrow, I’m just stunned, mouth agape and heart broken for you and your furry family!!!!!! Oh, shit, the mysteries of life just are too hard and sad to understand so many times!!! Poor babies!!!!! Harold just came down and read to him. We are just shaken from the detail and photos!!! Oh, kiddos!! For everything, we are deparately sorry. 2023 is turning out to be a sad affair for So Many!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Pam, I am speechless and grateful all at the same time. You have a long road for recovery ahead of you. But I know that you will give it your all. You have a whole circle of friends routing for you and supporting you. Wish I were closer so I could be of help to you and Ben. Sending hugs and prayers.
Mom aka Janet
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Oh my heavens!
Grateful Ben’s okay and you’re alive! Sad to hear about Ryder.
If anyone has the heart and attitude to bounce back from something like this, it’s you.
Please keep us posted.
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Pam & Ben – seeing the pictures after reading about the ordeal puts a new perspective on the meaning of being irreplaceable. Lives were saved and loved. RV may be not salvageable but memories are forever etched in hearts. We are so sorry for your tremendous losses, especially Ryder. Our hearts and thoughts are with you both in your recovery.
Kevin & Kristyn Eck
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Dear Pam,
I am so, so grateful your injuries were not worse than they are and you’re a pretty darn tough ol’ girl and I am sure you will get through this. Thankful that Ben was not hurt and that you have him to help with your recovery. I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet pup and the damage to your RV. Sending love and prayers for the speediest recovery. Take care of you friend.
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Phyllis, thanks for your kind words and God was definitely watching over us when we bounced around inside that motorhome it’s really a miracle that we survived the crash. Thanks friend. Love you.
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OMG Pam really sorry to hear this. Praying for your successful recovery and will be thinking of you and Ben alot!
Sent from AOL on Android
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Thanks so much for your kind words it’s gonna be a long haul, but we’ll be back at it soon as we can. Love you both.
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Dear Grover (I’m probably the last person on earth to call you that) Thanks for the kind note. It’s definitely going to be an adjustment.
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Wow. I’m glad you and Ben and Chase are still with us and huge sympathies about Ryder. Sending strength vibes to you all for the journey ahead. Hugs, DL
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Thank you so much for your kind words they mean a lot it’s been gratifying to see how many people have expressed their care and concern about the red dogs and all of their adventures. There will be more it’s just gonna take time. Thanks again.
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I am speechless, Pam. I’m so glad you, Ben and Chase came through the wreck. I’m so sorry about Ryder. I’m also sorry for all of the pain, physical and emotional, that this has caused. Steve and I are keeping you and Ben in our prayers and you know if there is anything we can do, we’re there for you. Just say the word. Love you!
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Thank you Hollie it’s going to be a big change but we’re going to get through this together. Thank you so much for your care and concern.
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Pam, my heart is broken for you both. Please know that Bob and I are praying for you EVERY DAY. Knowing you, I’m sure you will handle all this with grace and determination. I’ve always admired that in you! Don’t forget that this is just an era in your life and that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Meanwhile, have faith in our loving Lord. He wants only the best for you and Ben. Give Chase a hug for me, he’s so cute! I think of those two big red pups in Dog Heaven, rolling in the sand!
Love and hugs.
Rae, Bob and Della
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Oh Pam… I am so sorry to hear of your accident! You guys are in my thoughts and prayers! Please please let me know what we can do and if you need anything at all.
Hugs
Chelsea Waid
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Ben and Pam. I am just so sorry. I am sending prayers and love for both of you in this journey.
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I don’t know what to say…I am truly thankful that you are both still with us. Thank God. Know that you both are in my thoughts and prayers. Sorry about Ryder.
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